Game Should Always Be On

I didn't plan on having anything to write here, but you know how Hrithik do! If opportunity arises, I'm all about it.

I go to campus, with the intention of attending class. I decide that eating is more important, especially when I ended up talking to my roommate about mid-terms next week and was going to be late already. I pick up my food [and had some playful negging of HBLightPearl in the process] and head towards the Perfect Location for Lunch, when on my way, I run into HBKraaazyBody just standing in the middle of the sidewalk. So, of course, I game her..

I just went right up to her, big smile on my face, and started "awww"ing her with my arms open, and then I just hugged her. As I did this, I said something about it being really sweet of her to wait for me, and she smiled and tried to be tough/non-girly about it [but of course, body language always gives away the true intention: her arms were already wrapped around me]. We chit-chatted for a bit, I got in continued Attraction stuff as well as some rapport and Comfort, too. I even threw in a random cold-read [which I don't normally do but want to try to do more of]..and this one was an automatic one that had to be right: I based it off of something that she had just said, but she missed that fact [they usually do], and it was great because she not only qualified herself [in agreement with my read] but even fed into it for the rest of that particular conversational thread. The only real negative in our interaction as a whole was that we didn't have much kino going on, but it was solely due to the fact that her hands were full, and so were mine. But I still managed to get in an ass-grab plus some verbal talk about her ass [something about it blocking the satellite signals of her cell phone's network, since she complained that she doesn't get signal sometimes even when it's just in her back pocket]. Then, we both rolled to our respective classes [which she was actually missing to stay with me].

As I am eating my lunch, a couple of my boys call out to me and tell me that there's a biochem review session going on, so I joined them to hit that up. And I don't know shit! Awesome.

Afterwards, we ended up skipping class, especially seeing other people leaving the lecture hall. So instead, I came back to the P.I.M.P. pad to get some stuff done before 5pm, when I was to meet 1 of my good buddies to get some helpful shit for my histo mid-term next week. In the meantime, HBShorty starts texting me, and we plan to meet up after I get my flash drive to my boy.."but only for a minute!" [credit - DYD].

I go to meet my boy, a little after 5, get that shit done, chit-chat for a bit until he has to catch his ride, and then I head out to meet up with HBShorty..

..2 hours later, I'm now getting back to my place. Not quite as planned, but I'll make it pay off for me as soon as mid-terms are done. We covered a good deal of stuff: hit tons of Attraction [always], a lot of rapport, and some serious Comfort, too [relatively speaking]. She was initiating ridiculous amounts of kino, and I was throwing in some solid push-pull stuff in for good measure when needed/wanted.

I know I could've gotten a kiss-close, but I wasn't really sure how to do that without it being a little awkward [considering we were still on campus]..thinking about it now, I realize that what I should've done is bounced her to a more private location and then escalated from there..fuck! Oh, well..that's the purpose of this blog - to force me to sit down and analyze what happened, and then have a written log of all of this insightful realizations to use now and especially later.

Regardless, I'm at a point with her where I feel that I can definitely get physical with HBShorty[if I so choose]; the only serious problem I see at this point with her is the bf angle: I don't know if she's going to want commitment before we do anything physical..especially considering how often it came up in coversation relating to how others are going to gossip about us and whatnot, since we're chillin and shit. It definitely didn't help when this guy and girl walked by, whom she's friends with, and the girl started saying some stupid thing about her not acknowledging her friends in front of her bf..I was thinking, 'Greaaaat, thaaanks..'

I think I did a pretty good job of handling it, though; at first, I addressed it logically [as in, "Who cares? I've learned, especially down here, that blahblahblah"] and then I took it to the extreme [as in, "Well, you know they're going to talk shit anyways, so let's give them something to talk about!!" and grabbing her, pulling her down into me (I was sitting in a chair - you know the lock-in is key!!), and kissing her all up and down her neck and cheek and upper back]. There was also some point in there where I was grabbing on her ass, but I'm not sure where that fit into everything..point being, I managed to find ways to definitely escalate sexually physical kino with her to get that whole thing in motion for later and at the same time, hopefully push out any thoughts about not being physical if we're not "together" [especially since people will have seen us and will begin talking, if they haven't already]. I also threw in a lot of exaggerated talk about us being "together" together, such as when she'd say/do something "bad", I'd bust on her, telling her things like because of that, that's it, we're done, finished, I want a divorce, I'm taking half of everything, I get custody of the kids on the weekends, etc, so hopefully that'll also help out with this whole issue.

Anyways, there was some hot shit that happened here, too, which is not directly related to her: I got massive pre-selection and social-proof as people walked by, and they saw her standing next to me in the chair, while she's holding my hand[s] and has her body completely facing me, whereas my body is slightly turned away from her [example: plenty of chicks, including HBBaller, but especially this one really tall chick I've got a lot of Attraction going with from before, without ever having spoken a word to her - we'll go with HBTall-n-Slim - who HBShorty even stopped to ask her something that I'd put on her to guess/figure out]; I got some more practice in not only escalating things, but noticing the little eye-darting that takes place when people [especially females] and thinking something or about doing something or whatever else - basically, the eyes can give away a lot of info if you pay attention and know to look as well as what to look for [example: I'd been pulling her into me a few times, and I was actually trying to get her to sit in my lap, but she kept coming in for hugs..I guess she finally caught on, or the thought then entered her mind, and I caught her looking over at my leg/knee area (NOT my crotch, unfortunately haa), and mid-sentence, I said something about "knowing that she wants to sit in my lap, go ahead" and continued on talking about whatever I was talking about, and it was almost automatic/robotic how she just sat down..like I'd done some NLP shit or something haa].

Finally, I decided I needed to roll, because it was getting late [although she brought it to my attention..I should've been on top of that, but I made up for it by actually getting going first..which means - what if she was wanting to come back here..?? I doubt I would've let her, though, because I've got to get to the gym soon and get work done, which I'm not going to neglect just so I can get some ;-)].

At the bus stop, she and I were chit-chatting, and a mutual friend of ours came up and we all talked for a bit, then a couple girls she knows joined in, then they all moved across the street..and by chance, so did HBShorty to go greet a friend; she claims she told me she was coming right back..but I didn't hear shit, and that's all that matters, so I passed right by her to check the bus schedule, and she thought I was leaving [which was exactly how I'd wanted it to look haa], and she stops me with something about just leaving her there, and I told her that it was actually her who left me [in a joking tone, of course..that kind of shit doesn't bother a cool alpha male], and we were re-engaged, but on my terms, as I demonstrated by rolling off of her and looking as though I was leaving [but in actuality, it was only temporarily to check the bus schedule]. Then I rolled back into her group, negged her to her friend, and I was right back in, with everyone joining in the pick-on-HBShorty fun!

The group soon disintegrated, with a couple of people bouncing and the rest just shifting a few feet away from me and HBShorty. Next thing I know, she's leaning on me, all gf-style, and I'm thinking, 'I could have her right now if I want..and had the time to do so!! Damn mid-terms!' But it's alright, I'll get things done as soon as mid-terms are finished. In the meantime, I settled for a kiss on the cheek just before I got on my bus [she was taking a different one].

~h

Perfect Location for Lunch Lives Up to its Name

So, this confirmation came quicker than I'd expected: the Perfect Location for Lunch has definitely met the expectations that I had for it, and it's great! I had sat down and began chit-chatting with this dude who was sitting next to the bench, kind of hidden behind a pillar. He seemed very not talkative, so I left him be..and then he was trying to re-initiate the conversation. I would respond and become a litte more invested than 0, and then he'd have nothing to say..

This went on for a little while. However, I realized that the guy was definitely a foreigner..well, technically, so am I [and every other American student, since we're in the Caribbean], but the point is that he wasn't American, nor was English his first language - he was just an awkward non-English-speaking foreigner. So I continued to invest into the conversation, and I realized that it made him feel much better by the end of our interaction than he was feeling before it [the PUA creed: leave women/others better than they were before meeting you].

As I finished up my panini, this really cute Indian girl with a tight body [hence, she becomes HBTheBrownBody] walked by. I've "talked" to her before, again, in my pre-Mystery Method and pre-Venusian Arts days, and things were normal. I had seen her around a few times this term, but I'd always made it like I didn't spot her; this is a bad habit of mine, and despite my new-found mentality and outlook on life in general due to my experiences this summer [especially including my Mystery Method and Venusian Arts bootcamps], I still revert back to that mode every now and then..as a matter of fact, just a week ago I'd read through my notes from my Mystery Method bootcamp, partly as a quick refresher as well as deeper things that may not have clicked but I'd written down during my furious note-taking sessions, but also partly as motivation - this is key, because without motivation, you're done for..game over.

So anyways, this girl walks by and looks over at me. I smile, she smiles back and slows down her pace as she passes. I reward this IOI of hers with an IOI of my own [initiating a fun convo..something along the lines of "Heyy! I haven't seen you around in forever! ..I was afraid you had, you know..died.." - gets them laughing every time, by the way], and she started laughing [see? told you], changed course, and came and stood by the bench. We chit-chatted and fluff-talked, and I was just watching her body language [soo huge..and so simple..yet still such a secret for us men..{sigh}]: totally opened-up, facing me from the get-go. As we continued talking [I'm not usually a good judge of time, but I'd say it had been 10-20 minutes at this point], she continued to stand there, coffee in her hand, backpack still on..I thought to myself 'um, dude..she's not going anywhere anytime soon..she's staying here..with you..for you..and she's not going anywhere anytime soon..I need to tell her to sit down..', and even though I was feeling very hesitant about doing this [thinking that it'll bring to her attention that we've been talking for a little while and that she probably needs to get going to do whatever she was headed to do rather than actually join me..so it's probably in my best interest to not mention anything and thus she'll continue to stay here], I casually mentioned to her, "You know, you could sit down {gesturing to the space next to me on the bench}..", and in 1 fluid motion, her backpack was off, and she was sitting like right up on me..[good thing I ignored the gut feeling and went with what I've learned to analyze and rationalize to happen/work!].

Our convo basically went back and forth, with some fluff-talk and then some attraction/DHV-laced piece..then fluff-talk, then more attraction/DHV-laced pieces..then fluff-talk, then comfort..this was kind of an experiment, to see how I could incorporate in the general ideas of The Mystery Method's Magic Bullets without coming off too gamey [since we're not out at a club setting and thus seeming a little out of context with such hardcore DHVs and attraction/comfort pieces in a day-to-day interaction]. Some of the things I used included future projections [attraction]; taking care of/raising my younger brother [attraction/comfort] -> talking about having kids one day and how great that'll be, especially being a father, etc [comfort]; busting on her about her self-consciousness in regards to her age {"You're 25??..wow, you're fuckin old!!" :-p} [attraction]

It was cool also, during the fluff-talk especially, I'd test to see if I was still in good standing at some point in time or other [because this is something I've also been self-conscious of at times..again, it's gotten much better, but it can arise every now and then, especially with super-hot chicks that I'd initiated some kind of contact with from my pre-bootcamp days] by interrupting whatever she was saying to say something else..and see if she stops talking and listens to what I have to say, and especially if she then jumps onto my new topic, and even more so, doesn't try to go back to the old one afterwards - almost every time, it was just like this, so I knew things were still going good.

The Perfect Location for Lunch comes in handy for one more thing: social proof like a motherfucker. As I'm sitting there with HBTheBrownBody, plenty of people I know walk by, and suddenly I'm Mr. Big Man on Campus, especially in her eyes - it triggers all kinds of the attraction switches right there: social proof, pre-selection, leader of men, etc, since I know so many people and with them coming out of their way just to greet me makes me the top dawg. Also, it works the other way, too: all the people [especially the girls] walking by, both the ones I know and the ones I don't know, all see me sitting there with HBTheBrownBody eating out of my hand, and I've got pre-selection [and social proof as well as possible jealousy plotlines for later on..nice], and it causes those girls to want to be opened by me, either right then and there or at least some other time in the future.

A good while into our interaction, one of my guys friends comes over and chats me up, and it turns out that HBTheBrownBody and he live in the same building. In the meantime, another chick who I'd started gaming a few weeks ago [HBBaller] sees me from across the street, comes over without any hesitation, and posts up right next to me. I use this opportunity to create some jealousy with HBTheBrownBody, but also more specifically to punish her for becoming a little too wrapped up in the mutual bitch-and-moan session she and my friend had gotten into about their place. I slowly began re-positioning my body to send her negative signals as well as verbally not addressing her anymore, and it was soo obvious that all of a sudden, she was trying to win me back, especially since me and HBBaller were having such a great time together! Oh, man..how subtle were the cues that I sent off, and yet how massive was the impact on her..wow..

In the meantime, HBBaller's galfriends start coming over to interact with "her" and end up using her to talk to me, and at some points, they even ended up ditching their conversations with her altogether and just talking to me..and I'm sitting there thinking 'What the hell..?' - craziness. I also noticed much more looks from girls staring blatantly at me as they walked by, since now I was sitting with two different girls [because of my body language and especially the fact that they were literally two different girls, ethnically-speaking].

I saw one of my boys, a real cool Indian guy who's jacked as shit [sort of like this guy, minus the huge legs], and I got up to go talk to him, which ended up being quite interesting: at this point in time, my first class had just ended and so the students were out on break, mingling around..me and my boy are talking, and this one chick [HBWhite-WashedSouthAfrican] is just hovering around me..like, seriously hovering..trying to get our attention because he and I were so wrapped up in our own conversation..so that she finally makes fun of us guys for talking about hair. So, I pulled her in for a hug, but punished her with a hardcore neg/IOD: "Oh, you're just jealous..that's because YOU don't have real hair!!" ;-) She laughed about it, and when I pushed her off me after a second, she literally came back into me [social "rule": if you physically push someone away from you, they will rock/lean back in towards you].

Another blatant proximity situation took place a while later, by the time the next class had started and I had resumed my seat with HBBaller and HBTheBrownBody [who has at this point been with me for at least an hour]. This one chick, who has a ridiiiiiculously noiice ass, especially for her proportions, and who I think is studying psychology [and thus becomes HBPsych], comes over with her friend and hangs out around me and my spot: they put down their stuff, with HBPsych leading her friend, on a bence in front of mine, but just for a few minutes; when I didn't approach her/them, she left with her galfriend following - there was absolutely no purpose in HBPsych doing any of this, especially since the whole time her bag was sitting on the bench = 20 seconds..if that.

Man, this shit is soo crazy and yet soo addictive..it's like discovering you a have an untapped and heresofar unrealized ability: you are amazed and astounded, and you can't stop thinking about and using this new super-power..

~h